Relationships are a ride, a wild one. A very pleasant yet unpleasant emotional journey that can either make or break you. We often break a couple of times before we find one that will make us, if we ever do.
Once broken you can never fully mend yourself back to being whole, thoroughly. Leaving us with self doubt, low confidence and insecurities.
Women feel the pain more than men, it's been proven through various surveys and other ways.
In order for women to thoroughly heal, they will first analyse their pain for them to profoundly understand why they are hurting and how to deal with the pain.
Women feel more emotional pain relating to a break up more than men do. They hold on to pain for longer, however this helps them heal thoroughly and when they move on they truly do and not go back.
Women are known to feel more emotional pain than men do, that's because they allow themselves to feel any feeling they go through, giving them a greater understanding of how they are hurting and why they are hurting.
They cry for as long as they need to without shying away from admitting it hurts. They talk about their pain with friends and family. Healing from a heartbreak is a long journey that needs patience and understanding. It's not always constant and might have glitches here and there but eventually you'll get there.
Allow yourself to feel all the emotions and go through them immediately when you feel them.
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By being true to themselves
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Regardless the situation, no matter how it hurts, women stay true to themselves.
Women often make sacrifices to please the their partners but they stay true to themselves irrespective of that. Knowing who you are and staying true to that person is a vital phase in the healing process.
Pretense comes with attempts of ignoring the pain which will eventually birth a lot of anger and turmoil, making you shift your focus from being you to becoming bitter.
Women are usually associated with being dramatic and confused, this is not true, they are emotional people who are not in denial when it hurts, who choose not to hide their heartbreak and pain.
Women are profusely verbal about what they want, what they feel and when they feel it, bottling up emotions is not one of their strongest traits, which is a good thing because healing comes with being honest to yourself and the process at all times.
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Holding on for way more than one should
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This is a weakness that most women go through. Holding to any feeling, be it pain or happiness, just so they have a feeling to hold on to, at least.
Another reason why women hold on derives from their optimistic and hopeful nature. Women oftentimes are emotional beings and they value feelings, leaving them to always try see the good side in situations, more so in relationships.
They are always in hopes that situations will change and acknowledge that accepting that change is hard. Letting go of something, someone or rather a feeling you are used to is terrifying.
Women subconciously hold on to the hurt and pain they go through.
One woman says she held on after her husband left her for someone else because she felt like if she moved on and forgot how it hurt it would have felt like her 5 years of marriage was a lie, holding on assured her that it happened, that she was married and had a husband who proclaimed to have loved her for the 5 years they have been together.
She says all she wanted was to convince herself that her children were made out of love and by the time she realized how unhealthy that was it was too late and she required psychological assistance to find herself.
Holding on to pain and discomfort can easily drive anyone to depression and not moving on will affect all the other relationships to follow.
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