This picture is the real definition of a good relationship/
marriage. So many people fail to understand that your spouse didn't grow up with you or recieve the kind of home training you had. Both of you are coming from different background with different mindset and point of views. Most times you would want him to do it your own way and he wants you to do it his own way. This brings alot of quarrels and misunderstanding, you fail to understand that you guys are different, coming from different background trying to become one.
There is no better man out there than the one you have now, I've seen people who left their marriages, relationship because the man/woman was cheating only for them to get into a new relationship and discovered that they just jumped into fire.
Anything good you don't see in your boyfriend, fiancee, husband, wife, girlfriend, all you need to do is to carry your hammer and chisel (rebuke, correction, complement, encouragement and your inspirational teaching ability with love) and get to work. That your boyfriend/fiancee/wife/husband is like a block or wood that needs to be carved.
He/she is a raw material that needs to be carve into shape that will suit your taste. Do you like gifts on school uniform then buy her one. Do you like guys who drive cars and he doesn't have one, encourage him, pray for him and be an inspiration to him. The way you make your bed, that how you lay on it. Carve him/her into shape that suits your taste. It will never be easy but it is possible. Don't shout at him/her calling each other names or devaluing each other, just like the man who carves out something out of wood or block so are you.
By the time your through with each other, even people around will notice the changes in you both... Don't go looking for a ready-made man or woman anywhere. Just carve him/her into shape that will suit your taste..
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